Ok..it’s me. Yeah me. I know, I never blog. Sara is clearly the classier/prettier one of the relationship.
So here’s my take on the bar….I got nothing – I’ve already blocked it from my mind. I remember vaguely studying 8 hours a day, eating extremely poorly, and having a beard. I have since lost the beard – it was not a good look.
Here’s my life post bar: work. Actually, it’s a bit more exciting than that. I’ve determined that I am going to complete my P90X program from start to finish. For those of you who do not know, P90X is an EXTREME 90 day work out program. I did about five weeks of it earlier this semester and lost about 15-20 lbs. I’m not as big as I used to be, so 20 lbs might not be a good idea. But I would like to lose the bar weight I gained.
Here’s the best part about post-bar: I HAVE WEEKENDS AGAIN. I really can’t remember the last time Sara and I actually had weekends. 3L year we spent most of our weekends studying or doing clinic cases. It’s been awhile. We haven’t done anything TOO exciting, but just spending time during which we can actually relax is amazing.
So that’s my life – simple. Just the way I like it! Oh, and Shiner is a hyper butt.
I have an obsession with DIY projects. Have I really completed any myself? Well… besides spray painting my old filing cabinet red… no, not really. However, I stalk blogs like Design*Sponge like whoa. For months now I have talked Jake’s ear off about how I want to reupholster a chair by myself. He can attest to my manic, daily Craigslist checking habits and unusual study break ideas – “Honey, can we take a break and go check out the thrift store/consignment store down the street/garage sale sign we passed 3 hours ago?”
Well, it was worth it:

Why, yes, that IS a channel back chair for $15!!

And what is this?! A side table for $10?!?!
I can’t wait for the Bar to be over!! I’m going to reupholster that chair and paint that side table like nobody’s business!! I just wish I had the camera at the garage sale this morning to take pictures of Jake trying to fit the chair into his Honda Civic. It was a 15 min. site to see accompanied by words of encouragement from a fellow garage sale patron who cheered, “I thinks it’s bout time y’all call yer uncle with the truck to git hurr.” Thanks buddy, really.
The Bar has taken over my life for the past 2 months or so. I’ve been through the spectrum of emotions from anxious, depressed, hysterical to shutting down and not caring. During law school, but especially now, I’ve had many moments when I’ve wondered if it’s all worth it to be this unhappy…
I’ve been having one of the those moments for the past 2 months that was given a new outlook today.
A law school friend posted a Facebook status mentioning that she found a job that she would love to do that wasn’t law related. I commented back that she should go for it – thinking to myself that I should take my own advice. Shortly after our exchange I received a message from a high school friend that one of our former classmates, and friend, committed suicide this week. This news struck close to home – proximity, he was in Austin, and outlook on life, he was in medical school. None of us really knew he was having such a hard time or that he was so unhappy.
I wish I had known, not because I could have done anything to help necessarily, but so I could have at least been there for him if he needed someone. I can’t say that I know what he went through, but I’m having a hard time saying that I don’t understand completely. I have had dark and bleak moments of my own and it’s hard and trying to power through when you just want to give up…
I’ve decided that no matter what happens in my life I will be happy. If I fail the Bar, so what? I can retake it, although I’m not sure if I would want to put myself through this depression filled hell again, or I can move on with my life and find something I’m truly happy doing. Even if I pass the Bar I’m not sure anymore if I’ll pursue a legal career. I just want to be happy. I just want my mom to be happy. I just want Jake to be happy. Everything happens for a reason and all I can do is try my best and work with what God gives me.
My advice to everyone: Be happy. Live life. Go after your dreams.
I’m not a very religious person. I consider myself more spiritual than anything. However, it’s times like this one where I do value prayer. Please help me pray for my friend, his family and his loved ones. May they all find peace.
- Sara
Studying for the bar = no time to write blog posts = quick photo rundown!

My rosemary plant (from mom). This will go in my garden one day.


Shiner is super cute!

Delicious Rockstar bagels!


Jake’s birthday dinner (made by me):
Spice coated rack of lamb with avocado, grapefruit and arugula salad with a grapefruit vinaigrette.


Birthday martinis.

Delicious birthday cake ordered by mom!

Award winning jalapeno and cheese sausage made in TX.


Jake’s Father’s Day dinner from me and Shiner:
Steak with a red wine reduction, horseradish and sour cream mashed potatoes and vanilla and honey glazed baby carrots.
I could not believe my eyes when I saw this while surfing Foodgawker:
Thanks to, Ms. Adventures in Italy, I have been educated about the wonder that is Pocket Espresso To Go. Alas, it’s only available in Italy at the moment (which is probably a good thing during my Bar studies since I would most definitely OD on the stuff).
So what is Pocket Espresso? According to Ms. Adventures, it’s based on the original Pocket Coffee candy, a dark chocolate-espresso concoction. Pocket Espresso has 1/3 the caffeine of a typical cup of espresso and 47 calories with 1 gram of fat!! WHY DON’T THEY SELL IT IN THE U.S.?!?! Sigh… It even has its own straw!! Too cute for words.
Someone please tell Ferrero to get on shipping the stuff over to the U.S., specifically Austin!
- Sara
My mother LOVES pound cake. I distinctly remember eating Sara Lee’s chocolate swirl pound cake growing up straight out of the freezer. However, I also remember that many times the pound cake would be half eaten or completely gone before my mother or I ever got a chance to open the freezer. He would always take things he knew mom enjoyed…
Mom drove from Dallas for graduation weekend. While that may not seem like anything exciting for many people, it was for us because it marked the first time mom drove by herself from one city to another outside of the Dallas Metroplex area! This was an AMAZING feat since she hardly drives outside of Dallas period!! Well, Jake and I thought that Jake would meet her half-way in Waco, but she completely nixed that idea. Then we thought Jake could meet her outside of Austin in Round Rock so she could follow Jake the rest of the way to our apartment. She said she would call before hitting Round Rock… She lied. Jake and I had Bar/Bri the morning of mom’s arrival. Since we live so far South, Jake thought that it would be best to just go ahead and drive to Round Rock to wait for mom after class. Jake waited and waited for a call from mom (we called her numerous times and only got voicemail). However, when mom finally called she wasn’t close to Round Rock – she was already near downtown Austin. That’s right, mom was in AUSTIN and Jake was in ROUND ROCK. Sigh… Mom was so focused on driving that she never heard her cell phone. Additionally, mom wanted to make it to Austin on her own, which she did. Jake and I were amazed…
While Jake and mom were on their way to Austin (hehe, poor Jake) I decided to make a pound cake for mi madre. I had some whipping cream left over from my mascarpone brownies, so I decided to use a recipe I found on Epicurious:
Elvis Presley’s Favorite Pound Cake Recipe, courtesy of Epicurious:
(If it was good enough for the King, it was good enough for mom)
- 2 sticks (1 cup) unsalted butter, softened
- 3 cups sifted cake flour (not self-rising)
- 3/4 teaspoon salt
- 3 cups sugar
- 7 large eggs at room temp
- 2 teaspoons vanilla
- 1 cup heavy cream
- Grease and dust (w/butter and flour) a cake pan, bundt pan, etc. (I used a loaf pan)
- DO NOT PREHEAT OVEN. Put oven rack in the center of the oven.
- Sift together the flour and salt in a bowl (I used a trick I saw on Barefoot Contessa and whisked the flour instead of sifting – easier and it has the same effect)
- Beat butter and sugar in a large bowl with an electric mixer at medium-high speed until pale and fluffy (approx 8 min for me). Add eggs 1 at a time, beating well after each, then beat in the vanilla. Reduce mixer speed to low and add half of the flour/salt mixture (mix until incorporated), then the cream (mix until incorporated), then the remaining flour (mix well). Scrape down the sides of the bowl and then beat at medium-high speed for about 5 min. Batter will become creamy and a bit satiny.

- Pour batter into the prepared pan and rap pan against your work surface 1-2 times in order to eliminate air bubbles. Place the pan in a COLD oven and turn the oven on to 350°F.
Notice how my pan is filled to the brim… This is what you should NOT do!! Make sure NOT to overfill your pan and that your pan is big enough…
- Bake until golden and until a toothpick inserted in the middle of the cake comes out clean (with a few crumbs adhering) – approx 1 1/4 hours.
See, this is what happens when you overfill your pan… I basically ended up with another cake on the sheet pan underneath (that I put under AFTER the cake started overflowing). It was a mess!
- Cool cake in the pan on a rack for approx 30 min. Run a thin knife around the edges of the cake and invert cake onto the rack to cool completely.
I prayed that it would come out of the pan, and luckily it did!
Voila!
This recipe ended up with a lighter/fluffier product than I was expecting. I think it was the whipping cream and extreme whisk beating that did the trick. Although lighter, the cake was still dense, buttery and delicious! AND it was ready just in time for mom and Jake’s arrival (we proceeded to finish half the cake during the weekend and mom took the rest back to Dallas).
- Sara


From L to R: Apple, Water Bottle, Lychee Fruit Jellies, Yogurt, Alka-Seltzer, Almonds, Korean Red Ginseng Tea, Emergen-C, Bowl of Cereal w/Soy Milk, Big Cup o’Coffee, Bottle of Tylenol
Jake, me and mom at graduation!
Jake gave me a graduation gift. He knew I wished I had my grandfather with me at special occasions (I mentioned our wedding before), so he bought me a locket to wear at graduation with my grandfather’s picture.
At the reception after graduation with our favorite law school professor, Professor Buel (and yes, we shared a favorite). Professor Buel is an amazing and brilliant woman that I had the great fortune to meet.
Chocolate Mascarpone Brownie, courtesy of Recipezaar


